Becoming a Mentor in Estate Agency

In every career, there comes a moment when you look back and see how far you’ve come. The wins, the mistakes, the lessons that shaped your journey. That perspective is powerful and it’s exactly what makes you valuable to someone else.

Mentorship is more than a kind gesture. It’s a purposeful, high-impact way to give back to the property industry and support the next generation of agents. Whether you’ve been in the sector for a decade or just long enough to gain some insight, your experience could be the guidance someone else is searching for.

At Agents Together, mentors are at the heart of what we do. They volunteer their time, their empathy, and their knowledge to light the path for others. If you’re considering becoming a mentor, this blog will walk you through what it really means, why it matters, and what it takes to be a great one.

What is a Mentor in the Property Industry?

A mentor is a guide, not a boss. They’re someone who’s walked the same path and is willing to offer insight, encouragement, and sometimes just a listening ear. In the property sector, that might mean supporting someone who feels isolated in their role or helping a new agent navigate their first tricky valuation.

Mentors don’t give all the answers, but they do ask the right questions and help mentees build the confidence to find their own.

Mentors come from all areas of the industry: sales, lettings, compliance, leadership, and more. What unites them is their commitment to shaping a healthier, more collaborative and more resilient future for everyone in the sector.

Why Mentorship Matters in Our Industry

The property industry has long faced challenges: high turnover, burnout, and a culture that can sometimes feel isolating. Mentorship is one way to change that and make the industry a better place.

It builds stronger connections between professionals; it lifts standards across the sector; it fosters a more open, collaborative culture.

Mentorship also supports better mental health. Having someone to talk to, especially outside of your immediate team, can reduce stress and help people realise they do belong in this role. This is crucial for creating a sustainable, thriving sector where wellbeing is prioritised alongside performance.

Why Become a Mentor?

For experienced agents, becoming a mentor offers the chance to reflect on your own journey and share the wisdom that can only come with time. It’s about creating space for growth, not just for your mentee, but for you too.

Some of the most common reasons our mentors join the programme include:

  • Sense of Responsibility: They want to give back to the industry that shaped them, and they’re passionate about supporting others who are just starting out.
  • Desire to Improve Mental Wellbeing: They know first-hand how isolating and stressful it can be working in the property sector.
  • Nurture Talent: There’s a unique satisfaction in helping someone realise their potential, overcome self-doubt, or take that next career step with confidence.
  • Structure and Flexibility: It suits those looking for a way to contribute without disrupting their current workload and routine.
  • Build Connections: It keeps you knowledgeable about the latest challenges new agents face and sharpens your empathy and communication skills.

It’s not just the mentee who benefits. Mentors often tell us that the experience gives them renewed purpose, fresh perspective, and even boosts their own leadership skills. As Alex Tan put it about one of her mentees, “It’s really amazing and rewarding to see how she’s actually grown and flourished and how much her business has expanded”.

What Makes a Good Mentor?

You don’t need to be a CEO or have all the answers. Good mentors are great listeners first. They’re curious, non-judgemental, and generous with their time and experience.

We’ve seen the best mentors tend to:

  • Ask More Than They Tell: They’re genuinely interested in their mentee’s goals and challenges, and they take the time to ask thoughtful questions that spark new thinking.
  • Share Relevant Experiences: This includes both wins and missteps. They let those stories inspire action.
  • Respect Boundaries and Confidentiality: This is an essential aspect. A mentor creates a safe, non-judgemental space where their mentee feels heard and supported. They know when to step in and when to step back.
  • Be Realistic: They don’t push for perfection, but they do encourage consistent growth. They support their mentees to develop skills and confidence.

Most importantly, a good mentor believes in the potential of their mentee – sometimes before the mentee believes in themselves. 

The Impact of Mentorship

Over 1,400 mentorships have already been facilitated through the Agents Together programme and the results speak for themselves. Mentees gain clarity, direction, and confidence after finding and working with their mentor. Many mentees report feeling more empowered in their roles, more resilient in the face of pressure, and more connected to the wider industry.

For mentors, the impact is just as profound. You’re not only helping individuals, but you’re also raising the bar across the sector. One relationship at a time.

Flexibility That Fits Your Life

We understand the demands of the property sector. That’s why our mentoring model is designed to be flexible. You choose how much time you can give and what kind of support you can offer. Some mentors meet regularly with one mentee, while others offer quick 30-minute check-ins to give timely support and a fresh perspective.

Mentoring doesn’t have to be a huge time commitment to make a huge difference. Just giving a little advice or being an ear to listen can make a mentee feel encouraged.

You’ll be supported every step of the way. We match mentors with mentees based on goals, experience, and availability. We provide all the guidance you need to get started and our team is always on hand to help you navigate the process.

Be Present, Not Perfect

Many potential mentors worry they’re not experienced enough or not qualified to help. The truth is, if you’ve faced a challenge and come through it, you’ve got something valuable to offer.

It’s not about having the perfect CV. It’s about showing up, listening well, and offering your honest perspective. That simple act of showing up can be transformative.

Start Your Mentoring Journey

At Agents Together, we believe that success in estate agency isn’t just about what you know, it’s about who helps you grow.

If you’re ready to make a real difference, in your own career and in someone else’s, we’d love to hear from you. Mentoring is simple to start, powerful in its impact, and flexible to your needs. Whether you’ve got 30 minutes a week or time for a long-term mentoring relationship, your contribution matters more than you realise.

Explore more and apply to become a mentor today.